Why my ex keeps doing this

So me and my ex broke up 6 months ago ... But one month ago I tried to talk so she blocked me from fb (we werent friends on fb she deleted me for no reason because I didn't talk to her ) but 4 days after blocking me she unblocked me again , and didn't reacted to that and just ignored it ... So now she added me on fb , because se wanted to know how I was doing (I had a surgery) but why she didn't just send me a message instead of adding me :/? One week ago we started talking like before , and she even tries to make me jealous by showing me dime messages that some guy call her cute and princess blah blah -____- like why she shows it to me of I got nothing to do with her -___- , but them yesterday out of nowhere she told me she never love me and that I was a mistake ...why does she may say that ? Still hurt ? Or what ? Any advices ? Also she likes some pictures on fb that has to do with our relationship


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  • you have a girl that is emotionally destroying you with text messages/calls/etc...

    just say I don't really care and move on.. trust me on this… its not worth trying to be with them here because even though you might “win” you will definitely get messed up harder by the “loss”

    also.. it is important to have a carefree abundance attitude..some girls are really retarded and its a really bad idea to put your eggs into one basket (one girl) because when she flakes/cheats/lies/whatever you will be crushed/pissed/etc.

    the smart way is to have multiple options to avoid pain

    a man is only as faithful as his options…

    seriously.. though

    if you are in a relationship and have absolutely no prospects (girls texting you..flirting … wanting to hook up.. etc).. its just a matter of time.. if you have no other options you’re gonna get messed up one day…

    thats the problem with relationships

    people become content.. get fat.. get lazy… just let themselves slide.. ignorance is bliss..until they realize there is no escape from the sexual market

    … fast forward a bit

    when the forces of nature (2 year expiration window) end your relationship – its over..

    just like that.. everything you’ve poured your heart and soul into gets destroyed..

    you lose a part of yourself in every failed relationship– remember that

    thats why the best situation is to have multiple options and to BAIL (and never look back) at the first sign of trouble.


    you alone define what is too much trouble..

    maybe it is

    1. girl hanging out with other guys

    2. girl cheating on you

    3. girl not having sex often enough

    4. girl lying to you

    5. whatever

    there is a line we all have to draw (and the further you go the less self respect is left and the more needy,desperate you are.. basically its up to you how much disrespect from her you’re willing to tolerate)

    just remember.. there comes a point when there are more important things than notches/lays/”value”. .. I know but there are some lines not worth crossing … namely:

    1. girls that have dated or are dating your close friends (unless you don’t mind the friendship ending)

    2. exes (self-explanatory)

    3. girls with husbands/family (yeah I know its tough.. but I don’t tread this dangerous territory – boyfriends are bad enough)

    4. girls with mental issues (bipolar, ADHD, extreme druggies, etc )

    learning how to deal with them is just like everything else in life.. its meant to be fun.. its meant to help you understand and succeed.. but once the stakes get too high you really should say FO and bail.

    this way you never put yourself at risk; because you don’t gamble with what you can’t afford to lose.. and you can’t afford to lose yourself.

    trust me on that,

    good luck Bro :)

    • This post is gold.

      Especialy because you mention the 18 month mark, when ALL 'in love feelings' eventually fade. The feelings girls are always looking for.

      And the answer is indeed having multiple options available and bailing, because once you breakup, they find anything you say a turn off. So it's just a lose-lose situation.

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