What are his real motives and how does he really feel?
What Guys Said 2
I'm thinking he's rethinking your relationship. You were forcing him to become something he wasn't, restraining his personality it seems. So when YOU set him free, he was able to rediscover himself and he likes it. Stop being selfish and thinking about you. It's his turn to be selfish and think about himself. He's not thinking about you, or your relationship in my opinion. He's thinking about what's best for HIM. If that means breaking up, or getting back together, it'll be HIS decision.
Your little illusion of having control on him has just been crushed woman.
So you broke up with someone and demanded he change. He changed and in his change had the revelation that perhaps it was time to elevate to the next level of consciousness and maturity, and said "No, I will not resign to this game", and you're broken-hearted? But this is what you wanted. Congratulations!
He still loves you and all that jazz but now you forced a reflection and contrary to whatever nonsense you read in BS magazines men take this sh*t very seriously; you say "LEVEL UP NOW!" and they won't just go up one level, but two, or even ten, and thus the alonetime on the mountaintop. Men turn to hermits when troubled and tend to not be as social. Apparently you wounded him by attacking his core personality pretty deeply and then within a "week" even if he met your demands by acting a certain way realized that it just wasn't enough.
He's smart, like most men are, and is doing preventative planning and changing.
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