Three times he has cancelled on me last minute! Should I dump him?

He has cancelled on me three times in the last two weeks, once he was 'sick' once 'busy' and once provided no explanation at all! Otherwise he is romantic, gentlemanly and generous. It is like he is two different people! Is he playing games? Should I dump him?

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  • Maybe try talking to him about it before just cold dumping him.

    Be blunt but not accusatory, because that usually makes people shut down.

    I had a boyfriend that did this to me, kept cancelling. It hurts, I know. It makes us feel unimportant.

    Try the talk first. If nothing improves after that, then it may be best if you two split.

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What Guys Said 3

  • I'd start being 'just friends' if he's that busy; probably is doing a lot of online profiling or that sort of activity.

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  • Without sarcasm, I really like it how you Americans handle this - Three Strikes and You're Out!

    So... imagine what kind of a future would you have with someone like that? Worth it?

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  • Yes, dump him.

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What Girls Said 3

  • dump him

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  • well I wouldn't keep on chasing after him, if he's interested he will try and do something for a change.

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  • just move on or wait for him to ask you out

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