I've only been seeing this guy for a few months, but I deeply care about him and he does for me as well.
Well a couple nights ago my boyfriend met this girl. He just met her randomly and I guess he felt some intense spark with her that he has never felt with me :(
He talked to her for a bit and says he felt a connection. He says that they have a lot in common. Me and him have stuff in common too.
He tells me that he likes me A LOT, but he just doesn't have these loving feelings yet (which is understandable after only 3 months or so). He says he still wants to be with me, as he wonders if he will develop these loving feelings later on in the relationship as it becomes more intense.
But he says that with his ex girlfriend he also had these intense feelings and he loved his ex. She was so different from his other gf's, just something about her. But with me he feels like I'm like all his other gf's before his ex. So no exciting feelings :(
I'm not sure what I am doing wrong to not give him that spark. But I don't seem to create this spark in any of my relationships. I'm always the one doing so much to try to make things work, yet I have no luck whatsoever.
I;ve been told by many of my bfs that I am an amazing girlfriend, and any guy would be lucky to have me. Yet they all leave because I don't create that spark. I don't know what I am doing wrong.
I don't know what to do. I'm afraid this female shark is going to swoop in and take my boyfriend away. And I do so much to try and make him happy.
I deserve to be happy too, but I don't ever get approached by guys. I'm always the one pursuing guys.
We started talking, and he said that he didn't want me to go. He said that he doesn't even know if he will ever meet this girl again and he won't be pursuing her. But he does want the chance to talk to her if she is interested in talking to him.