Why would you not let go of an ex girlfriend/ keep tabs on an ex girlfriend?

its like the red string of fate with me and my first love. our relationship ended many years ago in a very harsh.ugly way. I told him half a year ago that I didn't think we should ever talk to each other again, and, upset, he agreed. granted, he found me again and he seems so happy to see me...but he has a serious gf.

what's the point of keeping tabs on me? why would someone do that?
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edit add : he can be really cruel sometimes, so if I'm sure he actually dislikes me. so why would he keep tabs on me if he hates me?

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  • He can't let go. I doubt anyone would really want to be close friends with a first love or someone they actually loved... Sure you can be polite and greet. I don't think hanging out in the same circles or casually talking all the time works for most people.

    What sort of tabs do you mean ?

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    • he has me on all his online sites (the ones that his girlfriend doesn't have access to)

      he doesn't talk to me

      however I asked him why he'd come and find me and he wouldn't answer, he just said he wouldn't tell me

      then he changed it to "someone told me to talk to you" however we have no mutual friends now nor is he actually talking to me

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What Guys Said 2

  • Seems he can't let go of the past. If your relationship didn't work the first time I bet it won't work a second time. Nostalgia causes people to repeat a lot of silly things over and over again in hopes for a different outcome.

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  • Ya that's pretty simple... He isn't over you and he still wants to hang on to you in any way that he can... Why did you accept his requests on those sites? Are you wanting to hang on as well?

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    • its a type of site where its not an issue of accepting. they can follow you regardless. but he doesn't talk to me, he's just there.

    • Block him or else this will lead to problems you may not want to have...

What Girls Said 3

  • it is stupid, he hasn't let go of you yet

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  • he doesn't seem to move on, just ignore him.

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  • well he might just want to be friends because you were a part of his life.

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