Lately I just haven't been able to stop thinking about her. I haven't seen her in years, things didn't end well for us the first time, but that's what I feel so bad about. I was naive and a complete idiot. Over time I've calmed down but still live with regret over everything.
This girl and I are a lot alike in a few ways and it just pains me that we had to cease contact. We could be so much. Even if we couldn't be together I just want to at least be her acquaintance. I just don't know how she would react if I reached out to her again.
It was back in a time where I liked her way more than she liked me and things just went horribly, partially my fault. I just don't even know what to say. It would just be great if I could find a way to talk to her and clear my head. This is a really important question for me, and she's always been important to me for some reason. I just want to do the right thing. Should I try reaching out to her?
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In your case I would not reconnect with her. (...and I have a lot of experience with reconnections!). I just sounds like trouble. You had strong feelings for her that she didn't reciprocate much of? What's to stop you from rekindling those feelings? What's to stop her from digging up the same negative feelings from before (if she has even gotten past it in the first place). In most cases when people rekindle a connection its just resurfaces old behaviors, attitudes, thoughts, etc. No matter how much you've both changed. Some of us have people that meant a lot to us, that we'll never forget (childhood friend for example), but just because our memory of them stays with us doesn't mean we have to go looking for them in our future. The past was the past, but its probably time to make some new memories with a fresh start. - good luck
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