I been seeing this guy well at first it was great but then I started freaking out because I didn't think he had time for me so I told him we could just be friends but I did really care about him he is a great guy but now he says because of how I kept dumping he don't feel the same and he has tried too but when he is hanging out with me he seems happy and the same as before last time he was hear we got playing around and endup sleeping together for the first time but he still seems distant . what should I do?
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"Reel". It's "reel". Like with fish.
Anyway now you comfort him and let him know it's not fake and all that good stuff without pressuring him into a position. Let it seem like he's making the choice to be with you while gently "steering" him towards that conclusion out of his confusion. Why no it's not brainwashing! That's a horrible thing to say. I prefer to think of it as "persuasion using subversive methods".2