Know anymore. He lost his job when we first got together . He says this is why he's not interested but I think it's more since his behavior has just started . Pls any advice or feedback is helpful or any similar situation . Also this is the first serious relationship for both of us
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If you got an STD - did he ever acknowledge that he cheated? If you were 100% faithful then how else would you have gotten an STD? And if you had been together for 7 months wouldn't a preious relationship STD already have been brought up? So you know it had to be more recent right.
Love is complicated. But respect for yourself Isn't. There is no reason in this world that you 'the victim here' would need to throw yourself at this man hoping he will take you back. If he is cold, then he may be pissed he got caught, or was loosing interest at some point before (hence the cheating).
Girl there are a ton of good guys out there. Ones that are faithful and honest. Don't sell yourself short for a man who you have to "work" at getting to show you he cares.