He started flipping out saying "why don't you ever mow the lawn, clean this, etc etc." I wouldn't answer him as he was trashed and he says "you can't answer me then you can forget having your tubal reversal surgery Wednesday." My reply was "you pull this EVERY week for the last several months. I'm tired of it. No tubal reversal, that's fine...no sex and you can consider us done!" His says "just learn to deal with it. When I want to do something I will!" I know that he wanted to say "just move out", but won't because he knows that I have the $$ and I will move out.
I'm frustrated because we only see each other for a couple hours on Thurs/Fri evening and half day Saturday, and haven't saw him in over 2 weeks and he wants to spend his time on the phone with his mother. Any thoughts?