I know most people say to find someone else or stay occupied. I still haven't found someone else to like. I do keep busy, but it's just hard for me to not have the "oooh I like this certain girl" focus to follow. What can I do? I guess for me it's just hard because a lot in life isn't personal, but this kind of thing IS undoubtly.
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It's just a habit like anything else. Eventually it will go away. Start really looking (but not staring like a creep) at other girls around you. you'll find there's plenty to look at that might spark your interest.
And NEVER take a year orbiting a girl that's not interested in you.