Now I must admit that since the first break I became a little insecure as it hurt so bad especially when my daughter asked for her dad, it was a heart renting experience, it still hurt at times when I thought about how easy it was for him to believe this girl over me and I never gae him a reson to doubt me, it make me question his love for me and I am still questioning it now. Now last night among other times he have been sending and receiving text msgs, what I found suspicious about last night is that at one point he waited for me to turn my back prior to him responding, he would then hissed his teeth like the person is bothering him or something of the sort and would be grumbling after each text. Now I find it very troublesome and uncomfortable, he realized that and asked me what wrong . finally I told him and his response was” I can't believ that’s why you were so sad, you know that’s why its better for me to be by myself” now when he say those words it really hurts. At one pint I wanted to say something to him and wanted to know if I have his attention so I asked” Are you watching the television? He responded by saying ”so what now, I will have to tell you everythin that I am doing, yes, I am sitting down with my hands on my leg, my goodness!” I was feeling so soo hurt based on his response, I could on;ly cry I felt like I aws trying to control and run his life.. I don’t know what to do. He claimed he love but I don’t know aht to think, do you think he love me. I know he is going through alott lately, financially and otherwise but thyats no excuse fr his behavior. How can he say he loves me and yet make is seems like I am a bother. HELP ! I need some advice.
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i think you need to start communicating more, maybe proffesional help would be good for you