The rollercoaster ex ride where is it leading

She broke up with me a while back. I accepted it and honestly moved on. So now lately mutual friends say she still talks about me and she has asked me to hang out several times, but I couldn't. Then we sort of hooked up one night when she called me over really late. Girls from you perspective what's she trying to do. I care about her but the relationship isn't something I want to get back into currently. We talk on and off. And currently I think she's mad at me for not chasing her after we hooked up? any advice would be appreciated

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  • Relationships are not equal, love itself isn't. For a sexual relationship to work the Man have to have the hand, because we Men are the responsible for everything that happens in our relationships, intended or not intended. You being dumped puts you in a lower, weak position, you didn't have the hand. You were more invested in the relationship than her, you were the disposable side, the one needed the least. It simply wasn't your relationship, it was hers, and because she thinks it's still hers she might want to do this kind of things, or may be worse, who knows. You not wanting to get back together does naturally come as a surprise to her, you're supposed to be the one who needs the other more, right?

    Here's my advice. A girl dumping you is bad, you cannot get back together unless you claim the hand in the relationship. The only way you could get back in under your OWN terms. Your relationship, your rules. She can take it or leave it. You're wise, honest, and respectful, but you're not an stupid idiot. You're not forcing things, you're just inviting her to join you.

    An alternative advice. Move on, find and date other girls. There are no special girls out there waiting for us. The myth of the One is so pathetic it makes me sick. If she wants to get back, you could keep her around as a booty call, or FWB. Committed relationship with her? Why bother, it didn't work the last time, there's no point in trying a second, third, fourth, time.

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What Girls Said 3

  • I think she's trying to get back with you. She's been talking to her friends about you which means she's thinking about you. cares about you and misses you. She may very well be mad that you didn't chase her but also may be hurt that you've moved on by hooking up with people.

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  • she still likes you

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  • i think she still has feelings towards you

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What Guys Said 1

  • She's pretty confused, and she doesn't want to accept that things have changed. Try to 'let her down easily' since she doesn't sound like a witch.

    Maybe the break-up was really for the best..see if you can get her to accept that.

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