Need advice: should I move on or are we meant to be?
What Guys Said 2
A big thing to keep in mind, if he relocated to you he would loose contact with his child. Because almost always the mother keeps custody. On the flip side, if you relocated then your child would loose contact with their father.
Really there is no win-win situation. It's important for your child that you are happy and that you have a good home life that is honest.
This is a difficult situation for sure, especially since kids are involved on both sides. On the one hand, neither of you would be doing your children any favors by taking them away from their other parent, but on the other hand, should you both have to sacrifice your happiness? Are the two of you really meant to be with each other? Or are you both meant for other people, that are neither each other nor your children's parents? A lot of difficult questions here, and I'm really not sure that I have the answer. I think the children should be your top priority. Is it possible for the two of you to both live near the other parents and each other, so that the kids can still have visitation rights with their other parents, while you two can be together? If not, I honestly think you'd be better off letting him go. Who knows, maybe you'd be able to rekindle your spark later in life once the kids are grown up and no longer in the picture. I hope I was able to help, but if I wasn't, at least know that I'll say a prayer for you.
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