Is he hiding stuff from me
What Guys Said 1
Yes, he's hiding stuff from you... and that's the way it should be. You don't have the right to go prying into his social media accounts. If you want to see what's public on his Facebook, then you may insist on him adding you as a friend, and if he refuses, then you have a valid cause for concern. Otherwise, I would give him the benefit of the doubt - especially because you were on a "break." A break means a break means a break, so you can't blame him for being with other girls during that time. You're only setting yourself up for pain when you ask about other women from the times that you weren't a couple - it's one of those questions to which you don't *really* want the answer.
I know you say you want the answer, and you might think you want the answer, but really, all you want is the "right" answer. If you're asking the question, it means that you expect that he may have been with other women. If he has, you're setting him up to either a) lie to you, or b) hurt you with words. So, of course he's going to want to protect you from that.
Might I suggest toning down the jealousy on both sides? It seems you guys have deeper, unresolved issues that are fueling your fights. Figure out why you suspect him of being unfaithful to you, what the source(s) of your mistrust is, before you insist on asking him to trust you with personal information.
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