Ever since the break up, his mom offered support and an ear to listen whenever I needed it. I took her up on that offer and we have been messaging back and forth on Facebook regularly. It's mostly just me talking about how I'm feeling and my doubts with things, I never flat out asked her any questions, she always offered up information about my ex freely... which has been really helping with closure and answer the unanswered questions. We both haven't told him that we are talking. We aren't doing anything wrong by any means.
Well yesterday, I noticed he had a bad day (based on his Facebook status) so I sent him a text that said, "Thinking of you... I have a feeling that things at work are getting worse. Sending hugs your way." And he replies, "Oh you have a feeling? Or did my mom tell you?" I told him that his status was how I knew, and I left it like that.
Now I am fearful that he knows more than I think. He has been using his mom's laptop this week and I wonder if he has seen any of our conversations, or if he is just suspicious because she comments on my statuses a lot. I am scared that I just lost all chances of getting back together... things were going so good between us!
I am curious... How would you feel if you found out that your ex was talking to your mom?
How do I best handle this situation to avoid drama and still have a chance to get back with my ex?