How do you coped with these feelings
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Realize that their rejection is not a reflection of you - and move on to someone better.1
Realize that their rejection is not a reflection of you - and move on to someone better.
I've had this happen to me and I've seen people do it to others. It doesn't in the slightest mean that your relationship was a sham. It's just a result of someone losing feelings for the other during some point in the relationship. Usually it kinda starts in denial and don't have the courage to end the relationship or talk with you about how they are feeling. So they will slowly detach over the course of weeks or a couple months until they no longer have feelings or aren't afraid to be by them selves.
Yes it is kinda like putting you in the back pocket, but it's also because they were afraid to be on their own. It sucks because as the dumpee you can get blind sided and it hits a lot harder. Where as the dumper has had time to come to terms with the fact that they are going to be alone and are ready to break up.
But your relationship was not phony in any means. It's just the other person not knowing how to break up with you.
Hope this helped.
Try to be aware of your thoughts.. when negative thoughts start creeping in, tell yourself to stop. It's hard, but you can do it.
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