My brother is 20 years old. Him and his ex girlfriend broke up about 10 weeks ago. He has been dating some new girl whom I VERY dislike because she has a horrible track record (not like my brother listens to me haha) He has been with this new girl about 8 weeks after his break up so.. 2 weeks so far into it. He hides his relationship status on Facebook but he never did with his ex. I asked him why and he failed to actually give me an answer so I left it alone. His new girlfriend is a serious attention brat. The kind that has every highlight of her day public, over 2k friends, everyone spam liking her photos. Yeah, that kind xD..
So, I found out she is born in like 1994, and she isn't even 20. My brother will post pictures of her and him on his Facebook and tag her all the time, but on her Facebook she changes her profile picture and cover photo to her in a BAR drinking with these random guys. I haven't the slightest clue how she was in a bar when she is only 19.. fake ID I guess? I think she is lying about her age to my brother too but he won't tell me what age she told him she is.. She never posts things about being with him. I seriously only see him making the posts and tagging her while she goes partying around for the world to see.
I know this is his learning experiences but this is my brother I am talking about. He has a big heart and falls too easily and I am really afraid that this girl is just using him or is just a tramp..
My brother is literally her 3rd boyfriend since April.. And her two ex boyfriends are ironically enough friends with my brother. She hopped all three of these boys! -shivers-
My brother's ex girlfriend is a good friend of mine, I have not told her anything that is going on with my brother just because I don't want her to get upset knowing he is dating this "hussy".
So.. By the current events and his and hers actions.. Is he being used..? I'd rather not see my brother get his feelings and emotions stepped on by this girl he barely knows but claims she is "the one"...
her two ex boyfriends are ironically BOTH* friends with my brother
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2013 -1994=19 technically she's an adult.
so is he. I know you care for you brother and yes, she's probably using him. On the upside, this is definitely a rebound relationship and is probably only about sex. Meaning it's not going to last very long.
He's definitely gotten attached too fast to the wrong girl, but there's probably nothing you can do about it. Sit him down, tell him you care about him, say what you have to say about her then leave it alone. Nothing else you can do. He'll have to make this mistake and learn on his own.
By the way, the most effective way to do this is calmly rationally and bluntly. Spell it out straight, and don't get angry or argue or shout because if he thinks you're upset because you just dislike her personally he'll probably ignore what you have to say.0
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