especially if I work side by side with the guy and he is chasing after a much younger coworker right in front of my nose...i've never hated anyone so much.
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It happened to me. While he was chasing me, he was also chasing a younger girl. We dated and I knew they were friends. However, one day I saw them going out together in his car at lunch time. I asked him where did he go for lunch that day, and he said: I just grabbed something quickly at the cafetería. So I sat down and talked to him, and told him that from now on we were just friends, and nothing more. Two weeks later he was dating her officially. We both were managers, and we had to spend at least 3 hours per day together. It was hard, but I can tell you that time healed my wounds. I had to balance the good and the bad in our friendship, so I decided to go with the good. That happened last year, and we are good friends now. He still tries to make me fall in love once in a while, but then I stop him by telling him we are just friends. It took me around 8 months to overcome him though. Even when I left the company for different reasons. I love him as a friend cause he was always there for me, and got my back. So I appreciate his friendship a lot. Of course, what he did hurt me a lot and had to forgive him from the bottom of my heart.0