Why is she distancing herself from me?
What Girls Said 2
Have you talked to her parents or friends about this? I'm not saying like: "hey, your daughter/friend is acting weird, what's up with that?" more like: "have you noticed a change in behavior ? Because I feel like something is wrong and I want her to be open about it". Try her parents first, tell them you'd appreciate it if they helped or tried to figure out what's wrong as well.
Try to calm her down, like invite her for a nice evening, romantic, make dinner or something and if you notice she's comfortable and calm, ask her if everything is okay because you feel there's a distance between the two of you. If she's being dramatic again, tell her calmly that you did your best to try to figure things out but that you can't cope with her behavior all this time anymore (if this is the case ofcourse). Just tell her how her behavior makes you feel, and if she realizes that it can't go on like that, maybe she'll open up. Or the other option is that she gets pissed off and you still don't know.
But we can't know why she's distancing herself from you. When I do that in a relationship, it's because I'm not in love with the guy anymore, or because I'm upset about something he did but I'm too stubborn to tell (but even then I "cave" and just tell him the deal).
Sounds like she's preparing for a break up, there's not much you can do, just keep trying to communicate if you can.
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