I'm Heartbroken and I need advice Please...My EX-girlfriend blocked me?

*The one I treated like a princess,and the one that broke my heart in 2.I did everything for her run her baths with petal roses with beautiful candles and music,Gave her,her own space.When she was on her period got her ben and jerrys ice cream and magazines and took her out to dinner and SO much more...*

**I'm the first ex-boyfriend she blocked,She never blocked the other ex-boyfriends on Facebook and these guys lied to her and cheated on her.I broke up with her for lying to me and going behind my back and I said to her it's best if we don't talk anymore and then 2 weeks later she blocked me and her brother is telling people that I treated her horrible when he KNOWS and SAW me treat her like a queen and it's annoying me so much! I need advice please :(**


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  • The only thing I can say is forget about her. I know it's not what you want to hear right now, but you obviously loved her more than she loved you. She took you for granted, and left you to be free to do whatever she likes. She didn't see how you treated her like gold and didn't appreciate all the things you did for her.

    Find a girl who will reciprocate what you do. Don't fall head over heals for a girl and start worshiping the ground she walks on before you see how she really is like.

    So stop all contact, if she does contact you, then I would ask her why she broke up with you. Get the answers you need. She may or may not come back, there's no way of knowing that yet. But I would honestly want to take this chance to find someone who is going to appreciate you.

    There are so many other girls out there who would love for you to treat them even half as well as you treated this girl. Save your energy for the one's who are going to appreciate what you do and send back that love and affection.

    Sounds to me like you dodged a bullet!

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  • I don't know the person, but I will give you my opinion going by what I read.

    Since YOU broke up with her, I think it is a manipulation technique. She is hurt and wants you to hurt as bad as she is. If you hurt that bad, you will come begging her back.

    Question: Have you tried to contact her in any way? And have you asked her back?

    If so, and she hasn't accepted, then either this is not what I think, or she is trying to make you hurt for a while and then come back to you. --people do this..it's cruel...Karma is a -----. Anyway, if you do want her back, just wait it out. Either you can give her what she wants and continue to beg, or ignore her and see what happens. Chances are she will get scared you don't care and that you are moving on and call you. But, don't give her actual proof you are moving on. That will misfire and she won't pursue you because she will think it is too late.

    my opinion: She is just trying to get back at you. Scare you. Block you from seeing what she is doing so you worry WHAT SHE IS DOING. That is what she wants. It is a tactic to get you back or to hurt you like you hurt her.

    Another question: Is what she did really worth the break up? I just say this because I am a firm believer in working on issues in a relationship. I guess I am a romantic. = /

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  • After reading the first paragraph, let me just say that you sound like the perfect boyfriend. Any girl would be so lucky to have a gentleman like you!

    I know that it is easier said than done, but I would move on and find a girl that appreciates you. Furthermore, I would find a girl that has a family that is not going to spread nasty rumors about you. You did the right thing by breaking up with her for being a liar and I would not regret your decision. First heartbreaks are always the worst, but accept this as a learning lesson. Everyone needs to feel heartbreak in their life, even though it sucks. :( You will be a stronger person at the end of the day and you will be able to find a better girl that treats you right.

    Maybe the reason she blocked you is because she doesn't want to sit around and watch you treat another girl like a princess. She knows that she messed up and she is beginning to feel guilty about it. Whatever the reason, you're better off without her.

    Good luck! I know heartbreak isn't easy. Be sure to talk to some of your closest friends to let your feelings out. Hope you find happiness again in a girl who treats you like her king. :)

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  • f*** that bitch...if she could do that to you then you don't need that negativity in your life...you'll find someone surely..btw pof.com is a great website! try it out, I know a few people who met their husbands and wife on there :) good luck...oh thank you for making me want ice cream XD

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  • She knows that you love her A LOT so she's blocking you just means so You WONT B HURT by any postings or pictures etc ... you mentioning ice cream makes me want to go get some ha ha LOL ..

    Cheer UP ... Another girl will surely come your way ... MOVE ON sorry !

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  • hey all I can say is grieve and move on slowly but surely

    read this by the way it will help

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  • She had her reasons, whatever they were. YOU were the one who said you didn't want to talk anymore. Oh well. You dumped her, and you told her that you don't want to talk anymore, and now you're butthurt about her blocking you? Just get over it dude. I have no better advice. Life is hard. Things like this happen. It'll all blow over some day.

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  • I read this right after blocking my EX who I'm sure would claim the same as you. You probably hurt her. But a lot of it depends on how she feels about the possibility of becoming friends. If being friends is not a choice, then why be "friends" on Facebook?

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  • You clearly had an unbalanced relationship it seems you did everything for her but you expected nothing of her so she took advantage and then you ended it showing she couldn't use you so got pissy and blocked you.

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  • I'm never being in a relationship, but If you behaved they way you have described here with her, just leave it and move on.

    Well dah! " You" broke-up with her, she's not going to blame herself. Sorry my friend but "she's behaving like a b*$#@." She's not worth your time and worst your tears.

    She blocked you because she feels guilty, and because she's... (you know what I mean)

    Move on, and be careful next time okay buddy! They are tuns of girls out there who will want and are dying to meet a real gentleman...

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  • *sigh* you're such a good boyfriend ... so hard to find ...

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  • im so sorry, almost wish I was single lol but my boyfriend treats me like a princess too and he's perfect.

    Im sorry your hurting but it will get better when you realize she don't deserve you, and you can do better. I know she's your ex but my last ex boyfriend, I really cared about and he broke up with me for whatever reason. I had issues with his bff and I asked him one day, if you knew she was wrong and I wasn't doing anything to her, why did you not stick up for me? he said because he knew her longer than me. at that moment I lost respect for him and I was 100% over the break up and I'm glad to have experienced that, if it wasn't for him I wouldve never transferred to his school and met my future hubby.

    SO. just realize she's trashy and not worth of a man like you. People don't know a good thing until they loose it, might take years but they will realize it one day.

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  • That's the problem, you did everything for her. That doesn't command respect, that commands abuse.

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  • She most likely did it out of hurt.

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  • All I can say is you deserve so much better than her. I know it's hard, but try to move on. Go out & hang with friends!

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  • F her and her brother. She knows what she did was wrong and its hurting her so that's probably why she blocked you because it hurts to see you and she probably really has feelings for you. don't worry about the brother ignore him! and do your thing, Shawty will come around and she will be apologizing.

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  • I've blocked someone before because if I didn't, I would spend all of my time Facebook stalking them, getting upset at everything they posted, and it just wouldn't have been healthy. She may be blocking you for the same reason, if you really were as good to her as you say you were, and then you broke up with her? She's going to be upset. You broke up with her, so now you have to respect how she decides to recover. With the other ex-boyfriends, who broke up with whom? If they treated her terribly, it makes it a bit easier to get over them, because they were horrible, who needs them? If what you said is true, and you broke up with her for lying, she knows she just messed up a good thing, no matter what she may be saying aloud.

    But none of that really matters in the end, because unless you didn't truly mean it when you broke up with her, your relationship is over. Now you have to stand back and let her get over you in a way that works for her. But that's for Facebook. As far as the slander goes, if it really makes you uncomfortable, go confront the brother, or confront her if you wish, but I don't know that anything good will come of it. It will pass with time.

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  • just try to get over her and move on.

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  • 1) Just because you treat a girl like a "princess" doesn't mean she'll be indebted to you forever. Believe it or not, some girls want to be treated like normal people, not royalty on a pedestal.

    2) Since you broke up with her, she's likely hurt...hence her blocking you.

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  • I've been blocked and deleted by ex's before it happens , its actually really common for them to do this . it will get better in time and you'll realize there is more important things to worry about than being blocked on Facebook by a girl your not dating anymore . get out there and meet some new people

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  • Make a decision to never re-date ex's. Once you commit to this whenever you have a break-up in the future the time you sit around unproductive and mope will be cut in half. I know it's hard what you're going through but you should try not to worry about what she's doing and go out and make new stories for yourself. She went behind your back and lied to you, you can do better!

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  • I would assume she is seeing someone new, or doing lots of partying, and posting those things. She doesn't want you to see them because she knows it will hurt you. It sounds like more of a mercy thing than a mean thing...

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  • What's wrong with her blocking you? You want to be her "friend"? Because you're not her friend.. You still want to be with her so it's better for her and yourself go your separate ways.

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  • Let it go and move on.

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