Can I salvage the situation? I can't lose her for another 5 years... maybe even longer this time
What Girls Said 1
That is amazing that you have that much love for her. Since you do not want to give up you can only wait or work out some sort of compromise with her where you can carry the relationship, but allow her as much freedom as she needs as far as having fun with her friends, but I am not sure how that would work as too much freedom may not be a good thing. Waiting - meaning she really may not be ready for a relationship right now. I am not sure how old you guys are but it sounds like she has gone through so much already and just wants to enjoy herself without restriction, so you can wait for her to be ready for you whenever and if that time comes.
I would definitely continue to be around and be her friend if that is all she wants at the moment and when and if she is ready she will come back to you. I think it possibly be salvage. When you consider she went through a lot in such a short time broke off an abusive relationship with her child's father, then met you again and jump into a relationship - that is lot emotionally.
She definitely needs some time to heal a bit and she cared about you enough to let you go so that you would not be hurt in the process. Definitely keep fighting for what you believe and just keep the faith and have patience that it will work out.
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