Bf hot and cold on me

we had yet again another fight with my boyfriend. I gave him an ultimatum that we either stop breaking up and getting back together because it was killing me and causing me so much pain. I basically broke down and said he had to either be really committed to making our relo work or leave me alone it causes me too much pain this in the middle. he said he would call later that night. he just texted me near midnight saying.."dont know what to say to you seriously don't want to see you upset anymore." seems like a cop out response to me. he loves seeing me upset. its all he has been doing lately. don't know what to reply or what he is trying to say..


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  • Many girls somehow believe that if they put up with a guy's bad behavior long enough(like you take him back every time), that he will eventually see how much she loves him, and will love and respect her equally in return. Unfortunately, this is a totally misguided notion.

    Most guys want a fun, self-confident girl, who respects herself, and who doesn't need him to have a good time. Once a guy knows you can't live without him, and will put up with any selfish or bad behavior he dishes out, your chances of keeping him challenged and interested in you goes right out the window.

    Not only should you respect other people, but you should demand the same degree of respect for yourself. You should never put up with any kind disrespect from anyone, especially a person you are in a relationship with. You will have a much better chance of keeping a guy interested in you if you stand up yourself, than if you allow him to walk all over you.

    Just remember that there are 4 billion guys on the planet. If the guy you are with starts displaying negative, or disrespective behavior towards you, be willing to walk away. If you do, it's very possible he will chase after you with new found respect. A respect he will never have for you if you can't respect yourself enough to leave.

    hope this helped :)

    good luck bud..!

  • leave him.

    life is too short, he's clearly not worth it and is a baby.


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