This girl I'm in love with, that I went to hs with she has a boyfriend but she obviously likes me and does things to try and get my attention.
I'm gonna make this short and not add our whole story, basically we liked each other a whole lot, I never made a move because I was to shy to and her current boyfriend persued her the whole time she was persueing me.
I know I hurt her self esteem unintentionally. Does she still like me, but is afraid to break up up with her boyfriend for me?
She is shy in this area like me and lacks a back bone at times. It's clear she likes me, but is still with her boyfriend?
Any women on here ever feel this way but couldn't break up with her boyfriend even though she wants to? She doesn't have the courage?
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If she knows how you feel about her, then she's probably scared of breaking up with her boyfriend. She's indecisive for one of many reasons. She could be afraid of you changing your mind, if she gave you a chance and she would have lost someone to be with.
I just went through pretty much the same scenario very recently, and MY problem was I'm in love with this guy Matt who I didn't 100% trust at the moment, but was dating Justin a guy who I didn't LOVE but he was good to me and never hurt me. I was scared that if I left Justin for Matt, that Matt would change his mind about me or whatever and then I would have lost Justin and had no one at all. (It's selfish but true).
So it all came down to a choice. Do I go to the guy I love or say with the guy who made me feel secure?
So she may be having the same conflict in her head and too scared to do anything at the moment. My advice is to make sure she knows you love her with all your heart and MEAN IT. =] things will work out.1
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