i told my ex boyfriend (currently working on each other) about this website. his post is anon and says he was forced in a engagement. its true. but when I seen him for the first time again yesterday, I cried he lost weight, his face breaking out, he don't look like the same guy I been seeing. I just seen him! his lips is really black because I just seen him months ago he did not smoke like that...i cried and ran away! how can I help him through this? that girl deploy next week? I cried because he don't look the same.