Today my girlfriend joined me in my lecture hall as school. She was bored so I gave her my computer to play around while I listen to the prof.
Fast forward , I come home and I turn on my computer from hibernation mode and it opens up her email. And the first email was an email transaction to her EX BOYFRIEND. I got really confused but I didn't react right away. Later tonight we got on Skype and were talking and usually we both talk about how our day went about. She talked about everything but didn't mention any money transfer to her ex.
I decided to confront her about it but first I went to the email and did a screen shot then after I refreshed the page , that exact email was deleted , I checked the trash can it go deleted as well. So I dropped the case and just told her I'm going to bed.
Anyone has an idea on how I should approach this or what exactly is going on ?
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Now I know this might not come of nice but I really mean it in the most un-insulting way possible to you...
Sometimes, when we are grown ups people in our lives get into serious trouble and feel like they have no one to turn to and then one great person from their past pops into their mind and they seek them out for help even if things have happened since then. If they feel like they can trust no one, but this person with this situation it doesn't matter what happened they will go to them if that's all you have. That really great person can then choose to turn their back on them or continue to be a really great person and help them out. This is probably what happened with your girlfriend and her ex. You may feel like she is keeping some big secret from you, but it isn't her secret to share. Yes, she has a right to know if she is giving her money, but that doesn't mean she has the right to include others including her boyfriend. Being a good friend doesn't make you a bad girlfriend. If it was something that she was going through then yes it is important for her to share. Keeping a friends confidence is different. That is something that doesn't need to be shared and shouldn't be shared in a relationship. Please just realize that you have a really great girlfriend who is willing to help even an ex and move on. If this was something you should be included on, you would have been included...1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE