So my ex boyfriend and I still had feelings each other and both of us admitted that. We're both in college about an hour from each other and I went to visit the other weekend. We had unprotected sex and I'm now possibly pregnant. After we had sex he just told me we can't be in a relationship right now. We continued to talk and I got a text asking for me to call him because he said he'd feel better if he heard my voice about everything going on. I called and we talked for about a half hour and he then told me he was going to bed. I got a text saying I told the girl I was talking to everything and we're not talking anymore. Ever since then things became "we" he's saying things such as we will be okay and things like that. He's said sexual things about missing my boobs and how good the sex was. But lastly, I texted him around 8am I know he has class at that time and I just said at some point today can you call me for a second? About 15 minutes later after he read the text he called me and I didn't pick up he texted me asking is everything okay? And called back and said I just saw your text and ran out of class is everything okay!? I was fine and he probably knew that. I didn't need him to call at that minute. I'm just confused on what he wants. He's showing signs he cares about me but I'm terrified of bringing up us getting back together. What does everyone thing?! Please give me some input
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first of all stop having unprotected sex unless you want a baby. that's simple. yes you could be pregnant.
what does the rest mean? it seems to me that you two deal in a lot of grey area. neither of you wants to fully commit or at least vocalize a desire to commit probably because you are both afraid of what the other may say. but you two clearly have feelings for each other