My fiance (well soon to be ex fiance, maybe) have been dating for about a year and a half and we just bought our house in March of this year. Since we bought the house things have been super rough to say the least. I don't ask for much, I handle all of the finances, pay the bills, cook clean and well everything that a wife and woman is supposed to do for her man. His main thing he says is the way I talk to him He pretty much wants me to sweet talk him in everything wether it be taking out the trash or cutting the lawn. I should have to be like "aww baby please take out the trash honey please" just me saying "babe can you take out the trash please" ends up in a big o fight. Well I finally had enough and I have been saying at my moms and he keeps telling me that I need to give more and what not. I don't know how I can give more. I am the only one that is fighting for this relationship and I am at witts end. The only reason I feel like staying is beause I feel so bad leaving him withthe house and the expenses. I know it will be hard for him to afford all of this and I don't want him to go throught that, I just don't know what to do now
Should I stay or go?
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If you don't want to live that way forever then you need to leave. Don't let money be the reason you stay. Also I'd say buying a house together after only a year and a half is too soon, but what do I know. I don't know if you lived together before but living together is a very rough patch that people need to work through or quit. It's much different than staying at each others place.
NOTE: Women are not servants to men. Of course he's going to treat you this way when you've led him to believe that that's his/your role. If you wanna be 'that' woman than stay with him because you're already moving towards a great subservient marriage.1
U are not happy. Stay with your mom for now. He sound spoiled and wants a maid . Sell the house and leave him. He seems spoiled by his mom.0
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