I've been hysterical over it all. Yet he had msgd me asking if I'm alright, asking if a family member in hospital was going okay. Then I updated my status saying All I want is cuddles and then he messaged me saying you should go hug your cat(he had said this when we were together and when he wasn't home in the past as well) and I didn't know what to say back to him so I just replied saying "lol". He didn't say anything after that. Then I noticed he deleted me off Facebook. How can you message me and then be all okay with me and then delete me the next day?I'm so hurt and confused. He is meant to come over tomorrow to pick up his stuff too, I thought a bout having a talk with him about us..but is that a bad idea?How can I get him back?I know that if a few things changed in our relationship, that we would be fine, that's why it hurts even more..
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the fact of the matter is he was trying to stay in a relationship he wasn't happy in. on one hand that's admirable that he wasn't just giving up. on the other hand, as you mentioned, it's rather underhanded because while saying he loves you and wants to stay with you, mentally he has already checked... thus he was texting other girls, thus the constant talk of break up or go on break, thus the fights, etc.
i don't think you need to even bother trying to get back together with him. you need to focus on yourself and moving forward.