I am trying to if there is some correlation with saying I love you too fast.
Ex. Julie and her boyfriend went out for 3 months, then say I love you. They broke up 2 months later.
John and his girlfriend went out for a year, then said I love you. They broke up a year later.
I have told my boyfriend a year in the relationship, but he still hasn't said it back. We are now 4 years in. I do wish he would say it, but he has had many issues before with girls so I am not pressuring him. I am happy with him so I can wait for it ;)
And, this is the longest relationship I have been in. So, I think there may possibly be a correlation.
Anyway, enough about me! What about you? I am really curious what the average time is =)
Also, if you want to get into this topic, answer this to for me! Thanks!
1)Length it took
2)Would you wait as long as me? or longer?
3)Do you see a correlation?
- 1-3 months
- 3-6 months
- 6-12 months
- 1-2 years
- OMG I feel you! 3-4 years
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My ex-boyfriend said I love you within a week, and said it every single time we hung out, every half hour, constantly. It was beginning to lose its substances when a word is used so often. I said it within a year, but I meant it more in a friend way.
My current boyfriend (2nd one), I can tell that he doesn't say those words often at all. He is the completely opposite and cannot express himself and he doesn't show any emotion. Ithink I'm okay with that though:)It COULDD be a problem though since I'm not very emotional and expressive as well :/
I think I could wait as long as you but I would be somewhat sad that something is holding him back so much from saying that. I would feel hurt that I'm not worthy enough for him to attempt to change his mindset. They are just words. :)
Good luck with yours :)