so I didn't really take into consideration this whole struggle thing and was overly excited to meet him in 3 days...sure enough this guy that looked EXACTLY like the guy in my dream came into my life in the most unexpected way. the very first night we started dating because it was just too perfect and ever since that day we were inseparable. here's the problem.. WE FOUGHT LIKE CRAZY. every day we would fight because of our insecurities. we loved like crazy to the point where we were upset over the tiniest things that truly hurt us. we dated for 14 months total and then had a catastrophic break up that almost killed us. he went to Europe with another girl for a year to get away from his feelings for me
every day I could feel him thinking about me and I was thinking about him. I'd have dreams of him breaking up with her and getting back with me in September
well my dreams were correct..he did break up with her and he came back in September so now we are back together. the only problem is...he's changed! he's kinda a douche bag now but I still love him. I wonder if it's just because he's trying to protect himself but I really wish he could be the guy I fell in love with. he is 100% without a doubt the one because all of the obvious signs I mentioned earlier but how the heck can I get him back to the old person he once was? help please!