What should I do moving forward? After she said she wanted to just be friends, I said that was absolutely fine and would never want her to compromise on herself for the sake of a relationship. When I saw her the next day it was very clear that she had been up all night and was emotionally exhausted. I would be totally fine with slowing things down a bit and letting her decide when she's ready, but I'm wondering whether or not that time will come. Should I continue spending time with her in the hopes that we grow a relationship? Or should I take what she said as a hint to move on?
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Honestly, her ex might be bothering her still.. I would say give her some space but don't leave her.
My last relationship was absolutely awful.. when people say they ruined my life, most of them don't mean literally.. this guy literally ruined my life, abused me, I've lost almost all of my friends because of him, took all my money, etc. etc. A guy that I had been talking to for about 3 weeks asked to be exclusive, I told him no because I don't want to get too attached too fast. That's what happened with my ex. What made me stay interested in him to the point that we are at 2 months now is that he gave me some space, still let me know he was there and was willing to prove to me that he is nothing like my ex, and he has done it. He gave me space when I asked for it, and gave me attention when I wanted it. It took some time for me to get my ex completely out of my life and this guy that I am dating was very understanding and very sweet---thats what did it for me and if I were in your shoes, that's what I would do.1