So, my boyfriend and I dumped me almost a month now because of his commitment issues. Anyhow, we talked about trying to remain friends. We would text / email once in a while and he told me that I'm an amazing person and deserves the best and that I will always hold a special place in his heart. OK, I get that. We're going to have a surprise party for his friend that I became friends with the girlfriend. I'm not sure how he would feel about it me being there and he said its fine. My question is...how do you guys react seeing an ex after a break up. Would you even consider to ask her back?