Here's the deal, my boyfriend has been spending a lot of time with this one girl which I hate. We've had many problems regarding this same issue because she's always texting him and asking him to get together after classes to do homework (and he always does). This semester they took a class together which happens to give them hw every week. Needless to say they are always texting to check answers or getting together to do "hw". What bothers me the most is that they are always getting together late at night and even during the weekends (in the afternoon). I hate this situation and since I've been dealing with it for almost a year I am just really tired. I don't even feel about my boyfriend the way I used to feel about him before. The worse part is that every time I get like this, I can't eat because of the anxiety. I don't even know how to address this now because we've talked about it before. I was thinking that maybe I should just tell him that if things don't change that I'm going to break up with him. I don't mind him doing hw with the girl, I just hate the fact that they spend so much time together. I know one of his friends (that is also in that class) and he doesn't spend nearly as much time as my boyfriend does doing the hw. What would you recommend I do?
BTW my boyfriend is a senior in college and so am I, we have been together for 2 years and we also live together.
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I am pretty sure it is nothing to him.
If you break up with him he will probably not understand why or will resent you for that.
I think you should play a bit on this one: put dates right where they are usually doing homework together...not all the time but 2 evenings per week to start and then see how it goes... On top of that, you can make yourself super pretty a night you know he'll be going to do hw, and casually let him know that you're going out with friends. Also, about him texting constantly, you can hide his cellphone at a spot he could totally leave it and get busy with him... He won't be thinking about his phone then!
You know, he needs to study and get good grades and maybe some fresh air from your home BUT he has to take time for you two! If he is out doing hw every evening and weekend, when is he taking you out?
So...try those things! I usually hate games but this is the best way that I see working for you.0