Here's the deal. The boyfriend and I have been together 8 months. In our 2nd month our relationship changed because he lost his job and got evicted and I allowed him to stay with me. We both have kids and my house is small but we are making it work and everything was going well up until I found an apartment book and discovered he'd been moving his moving his stuff out.
I confronted him about it and he said that he wants he's own place for his son. Which to me does not make sense because we'd been talking about making a life together? And I thought that meant that we were planning for combine our families. He says that him moving out has nothing to do with me but his action do not suggested that. When I was telling him about how I was feeling he said nothing.
I feel like we have been working things out and making things work, why now are you moving your stuff out and behind my back. That's going backwards - having two residence and trying to get a third make absolutely no sense. I don't know what to do or say.
What he was not hearing me say is why can't we to work on that together? And that I am not trying to hurt you or keep you from success it was just the method he went and doing it... As if he had to hide it or couldn't talk to me. And I need him to understand I want to be his friend and there for him.