I broke up with my ex boyfriend and he got a new girlfriend. We dated for almost 4 years and now he's been dating his new girlfriend for 2 months. We were trying to workout during that time and he had begged me back during those months.At first it upset me that it happened but than I thought it was for the best. I don't want him back but it does bother me that he still comes around and hangs with my brother. I mean we were together for a long time and loved and cared about each other. He comes around regularly. Well we still talk as friends and we joke around. Well he was telling a story and he touched my arm. I told him "don't touch me" he said well damn. What do you think he thought when I said that?
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He probably thought y'all were cool with each other to where he could touch you but you put him in his place rather harshly. Idk. If it bothers you that he's around put on a poker face when you have to see him but don't purposely hang around. Go out and make plans when he's around and hanging with your brother. I feel like the best way to act around an ex is a) being yourself--act the way you always have and b) conduct your life as though it doesn't matter that the ex is around, because it doesn't.0