- Looks: If the other guy is better looking than your boyfriend or husband
- If the other guy seems to listen and pay attention more with better personality
- If you just get tired of the same guy and are excited by something new
- I just want to see results
Girls, what tempts you to cheat?
What Girls Said 35
Not enough attention. Girls are emotional, if there is something lacking we want to see if the grass is greener on the other side. For example if you never tell your women she's beautiful and some other man does she will lean towards him cause he makes her feel pretty and given her that attention.
I chose B. However, I would NEVER cheat. I can't even express just how wrong I think cheating is. But, if I did find someone else that I would be more attracted to than my (hypothetical) boyfriend, it would be because of B's traits. I would definitely break up with him before moving onto the other guy, though.
The only time I ever got tempted (never acted on it) was when I wasn't happy in my relationship. My boyfriend was controlling and possessive and very emotionally abusive.
Liking someone other than your significant other is inevitable. That's just how humans are. Girls and guys the same. Having a crush on someone is harmless, unless it's acted on.
I would assume most woman would go looking for another guy's attention because she is not being appreciated in the amount that she needs individually. Under appreciation is the cause of many unhappy feelings. Relationship, work or school related.
I've never cheated and I never will. But I suppose that if I were to cheat, it would be because I was feeling neglected or abused by the guy I was with and for some reason actually couldn't get out of the relationship for one reason or another (like if breaking up would make me fear for my safety).
If my boyfriend sucks (this is an all encompassing word) then I am drawn to other men, the easiest and most natural plan of action would be to dump him before I cheat.
I feel like this is most often why women cheat...especially emotionally.
If I'm neglected...unappreciated and wasn't getting what I need from a relationship the temptation would definitely be there. I have never cheated but if I found that my bf/husband was cheating I would cheat cause whatever is good for the goose is good for the gander...doesn't make it right but I would...it's only fair.
I guess I would say B. I said D because I was thinking "other" but then I thought about it and I would be tempted to cheat if I'm feeling neglected or unappreciated so I guess that falls under B.
I haven't ever cheated, and never will. I would hate it if someone did it to me, and I treat people the way I want them to treat me. I can't understand cheating at all, if you don't want to be with a person, don't be with them.
The only reason that would make me cheat is if someone cheated on me or the guy in the relationship has quit complimenting me or basically neglecting me and taking me for granted.
I wouldn't cheat. I'd make it clear I no longer wanted a relationship before starting a new one. And the reason I've ended relationships before was because I wasn't being treated right
if I was pushed far enough if anything we'd break up
at times when I'm not getting what I want out of the relationship or I'm feeling under appreciated, I find myself thinking of some ex and maybe a little of what I felt for them and what they were willing to do for me
not because I'd take the opportunity or want to be with someone else, but I'd like my guy to be willing to do as much for me as id do for him. so it makes me question how much he really cares about me
reminding myself of all the wonderful things that he does do for me and how lucky I am brings me back to reality
i'm sure guys think about this too. love is about appreciation
I would never cheat.. if I am unhappy with the person I would be open about it..
its tempting when I'm having a hard time.like the relationship is going through a rough patch. then its tempting.
I might be younger than you guy but one of the first reason why a woman would cheat might be because she is feeling neglected by the guy with whom she is having a relationship with..i mean a woman will be 100% faithful and full of respect to a guy only If he deserves it ,You should consider her as the woman you love or care for and give her importance.A woman would also cheat if she doubts about your sincerity and the most impotant you should have time for her...on the sexual side euhhh if you're not good in bed or not enough sensual to her she might find it elsewhere...hope it might help
if things don't work out or if I don't get lots of attention
if I with a guy, which means I like him, I will never do anything make him sad and cheat on him
None. I remain faithful
I never cheat and I never will.
I would say A-C, they are all factors of it.
nothing has so far.
well if the guy is hotter or has a great perosnality.
Same reasons men cheat. We get tired of the same person.
I feel it's that the women may feel she is not getting what she wants. Maybe the relationship is boring/ not the same anymore.
My opinion is that if you really love him, you should talk about what you want him to do more and what you can do to spice up the relationship.
Cheating is no excuse at all for the reasons above.
I would never cheat. But if I start getting more attention from elsewhere, I would be tempted to move on
Can't say I've ever been tempted to cheat...
I've noticed that women who cheat, cheat with a guy that's better than her last. Women who cheat are usually cheating to trade up so it could be any of those, better looks, better money, better listener, whatever.
However, men WANT to cheat more but don't always get the opportunity and women don't always TAKE the opportunity.
I've never cheated, but I've been somewhat tempted. I've only felt tempted to cheat when I wasn't getting what I wanted out of the relationship. Feeling underappreciated makes me feel like finding what I want elsewhere.
But I've never actually done it before.
If I cheat on a guy it's cause I never liked him in the first place. If I like him I will never cheat on him.
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What Guys Said 1
The most chosen answer by girls, "If the other guy seems to listen and pay attention more with better personality"
I have seen to be very true among girls with BF's and Married women. When I worked alone in customer service, where there was not one with me, and a female customer came in a looked glum, mad, worried or anything. I would open up, seem like a friend, (which I was) and make them feel comfortable to talk. This lead at times to married women cheating on their husbands with me because their husbands would not take care of their needs at home or give them the time of day.
So I see that answer to be true.
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