My ex is driving me insane?
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Your ex boyfriend has internal problems he needs to fix.
If he does not he will encounter problems through every aspect of his life
just in different situations.
He seems as if he is used to his life being a total wreck.
If it is not that way, he needs to create some sort of unhappiness or drama.
In his mind, this sits well with him and seems right.
For some reason, he feels he isn't deserving to be happy.
Why is that? He must come to that determination.
He needs to realize he does deserve happiness and the only person holding
himself back from that is himself.
Until he fixes himself he will constantly create problems for the both of you.
You can choose to :
A) Be a part of it
B) Not be a part of it
If you choose A, you need to reach out first to him.
Tell him how you feel, what you see, and that you want to help him.
(Understand people can only be helped, only if they want to).
You will just waste your time if you try to force self improvement upon him.
Or B, cease all contact with him and move on with your life.
It will be hard but as time goes on , he will fade even more into the background.
He will realize that dealing with situations in the manner in which he has,
will only allow him loneliness and unhappiness.
You will find someone who is ready and willing to make things work.
Invest your time and energy into that person.
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