My ex and I study in the same small program at school. We were good friends, then he asked me out because he said he couldn't stop thinking about me. I wasn't really into him, but said yes. I did fall hard for him once we started dating. Everything was great..until one day he freaked out...he basically said he felt too young to be in a serious relationship(he is 24). He said he never saw us ending, and that scared him. I believe him. He hasn't had any other serious girlfriend, so I think he wants to try other ones out.
Its been a year since we broke up. We saw each other everyday in class and had to work on many projects together after we broke up, which was tough. But, I finally feel totally over him and happy.
This other mutual friend of ours that we just met has started hitting on me. He asks my ex some stuff about me. Anyway, my ex doesn't talk too much to me. He came up to me yest, and started making convo. Then he started saying "you know our friend x, I think he likes you. He asks a lot about you" and "how many of your friends know that me and you dated?", and "I think the other day our friend x was trying to hit on you at the library...that's why I left".
Do these statements mean my ex is jealous and still has feelings, or is he just making conversation like a friend?
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He's still jealous over you, or he wouldn't bring up thisother guy; he'd ignore that situation if he didn't care about you.
Maybe, after a year, he's not so worried about being too young to be tied down. Or, he would feel comfortable just with casual dating for a while.
But obviusly, he still likes you and wants to be in your life.0