We ended up sleeping together on the second date, but I wonder if sleeping with me was what he had planned doing anyway. I don't usually sleep with a guy just like that. It just kind of happened. It had happened the morning after that I slept at his. And then after I left, he messaged me that night. So I thought, maybe that's a good sign, he messaged me even after it? But then the next day he hasn't messaged me at all, but poked me back on Facebook. I then decided I'd message him(I never contact him first usually) and we made a joke about him poking me on Facebook. I then couldn't help myself but say it was a spare of the moment thing that we slept together and I said Because I'm not like that, I'm a nice girl. He then said he knows that I'm not, he knows a skank when he sees one, he's been with them before.
I'm starting to feel like I like him we get along so well, but now I don't know what to think. We both have just got out of relationships recently and we're both not looking for one, but I don't know it would just be nice to at least hangout., maybe see each other. But I'm thinking he won't even want that, he hasn't mentioned us hanging out again, I did mention he was fun to hangout with and he said thank you, but didn't say the same about me. We have known each other previously before these dates too so. And I don't know should I just leave him alone now :(. I don't know why he contacted me the same day we slept together if he may have only seen me as a bit of fun..
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"He then said he knows that I'm not, he knows a skank when he sees one, he's been with them before." Ummmmm yeah you just answered your own question. You really want to to like a guy that would call you that or say that about you? He's not saying it to make you feel better. He is calling you a skank and a slut. If I were you I wouldn't bother with him. He clearly is a jerk and just wanted to use you for a one night stand or just sex. He insulted you calling you a skank and he didn't even compliment your company around him. He's a jerk and a looser to say something like that about you. You really want to hang out with a guy that called you that and is acting like that around you? Hun you need to find a better guy than that honestly.
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