I feel like people should be a little more open to this.
- Yes, it's narrow minded! I'd give it another shot!
- Yes, it's narrow minded! Nothing wrong with becoming friends!
- No, it's not f*ck al exes!
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Yes you are very veryyyy correct on the narrow minded part. lol That or they like to feed there ego with the hurt they have caused you, and they are still a child within, and haven't grown up.
I am in the same situation with my first true love. I have tried multiple times over the course of 8 years to reconcile with her, and she just blows up on me every time I try to speak to her or contact her. I don't know why. She blows up on me like I used to beat her or something, when I've never put a finger on her, or even cheated or anything or done anything like that to her. Sure we had our little arguments, but she holds onto all of that like I have physically abused her, or cheated/ she puts it to that kind of high priority, which I don't understand why and which isn't cool. And when I mean she blows up, I mean like she goes nutso on me, and can never be civil and just talk with me. Like when I contact her, I'm all nice, and she just goes all nutso on me. I even called her out on it last time, and she actually changed her attitude for once, and told me politely to just go. I guess its the guilt she has that she left and hurt me that she cannot cope with or something, when I'm not even holding it against her. I always bump into her family oddly enough, and they always tell me how they miss me, and how they don't understand what is wrong with her. I dunno. I guess its like a pride/ego thing that keeps her away/them away, you know?
So in conclusion yes I am totally with you that people should be more open to this, as to why they aren't, well we will have to see what people who are against it have to say, and I guarantee you, there ego's will be talking. Not there spirits like how we talk.
But what I don't get is, they left us for petty things, yet the new person/persons there with, they stay and put up with these petty things that they couldn't deal with us with. Get what I mean? But have the patience do put up with it with the new person. Which is what I don't get. Like your whole family loved me, my whole family loved you, we were together for a long time, and you just squash everything we have built because of stupidity, and now can't even talk to fix anything, but can stick around with the new lump to fix everything. Get what I mean? It makes no sense, but sometimes you just have to cope and say, I'm better then this crap.
Anyways long story short, she probably feels dumb for what she did. I know mine does for sure, especially if her family loved you. Anyways, I'm pretty sure the guy she's with now slaps her around and uses her for money, and she regrets leaving me. But what can I say? I tried.
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