stop all the sweet talk and stuff and be just cousins, I got upset at that time and wished it all didn't happen from the start, this lasted 8-9 months and I got better with time and forgot about her somehow.
Then she started to get closer to me like before, and a week ago she told me that she misses the days when we used to sweet talk everyday and she still thinks of me and stuff, and my weak point now is that I'm also in a state where I want a girl in my life (note: no sex is involved) so now we're close like before and talk everyday. but the thing is that I still don't know if it's right for both of us to be close or not. My feelings tell me to be close, while my brain tells me not to.
how can I know what does she want from this relationship this time without asking her directly ?
we're happy with each other now, but I want us to be happy on the long term, whether we're with each other or not.
So what do you suggest please?
i need your opinions promptly cause tomorrow we're gonna discuss this issue
(sorry it's a long story, and thank you for your time and opinions)