So 2 days after I get the text we sit down and she is unwilling to disclose any details about her conversations with this ex and I had to ask her really embarrassing questions like did talking to him turn you on, which she denied and only served to make her flip out even harder on me. I sent her a text a week later saying to take a day, week, or month to get back to me about my questions and indicated said that she would. 3 weeks later she texts me:
ex: I need your help
ex: a legal question for my brother
ex: can I call you later?
one hour passes w/o me responding, still furious that she would be asking for something from me before acknowledging that I still had unanswered questions
ex: nevermind, sorry to bug you
around 1am that Saturday I texted her "where are you" because I was lonely and she didn't respond
Fast forward 4 more weeks to yesterday she calls me 3x in a row Sunday night. 5 minutes later she texts me and I try instead to kill her with kindness:
ex: I reached out to you a few weeks ago for help and you blew me off and again today I reach out and it gets no answer and your vmail is full. Whatever that means, I hope everything's going well for you. Clearly I'm not welcome to turn to you in a time of need
10 minutes later
me: Hey sorry I was away from my phone what's up?
So I pick up the phone and call her
me: how can I help
ex: I said never mind S
me: Don't say I didn't reach out.
ex: you didn't last time when I asked for your help with my brother
me: This can't be a oneway street. 3 weeks before that I asked YOU for help to get some closure on what your intentions were with us and you said you would but the first time I hear from you you want something from me.
her: It is a 2-way street. Goodnight.
She calls back shortly thereafter and say "Thank you for calling me back. I don't want us to be enemies. Good night."
I hate her guts. She broke my heart into so many pieces and now wants to say I'm NOT THERE FOR HER. My friends say she is trying hard to illicit emotions from me. What does that do for her? I have gotten an awesome job since we broke up, got