Does he (the guy who got back together with his ex) have the right to make it awkward? What should I do? Should I act like nothing is going on even though we are rolling to a party together? This situation is so awkward but I really am starting to like this guy (the mutual friend) quite a bit.
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Don't let it phase you. Don't let it matter. Even if he says something, how the fuck does it even matter?
You "hooked up" right? In other words you "made out" right? That's pretty innocent. Inconsequential. It doesn't matter. It shouldn't matter. It sholdn't matter to anyone except the extremely shallow and insecure. If your second guy really has such a problem with it, then clearly he's shallow and insecure as well, and clearly needs to take the stick out. If that's the case, do you really want to date someone like that?
Anyway, it's not awkward unless you let it get awkward. Don't get embarrassed. Don't hide it. If it comes up, so what? But just treat the whole thing like a fucking non-issue, because that's what it is. That's all it will be if you let it be.
If you're still so hung up on this, I suppose if you want, you can run interference, you can do damage control, and do something to prevent him from opening his fat mouth, or get friends to block him, like a good wingman. Somebody to watch your back. You could also get a hold of him before the night and either ask nicely or demand forcefully, that he not try to fuck with you and your plans.
But as I said, I really think you should just let it go. It doesn't matter, and you shouldn't let it. If you don't let it, it likely won't. If the guy you like has such a problem with you having kissed someone else, then goddamn, you're so much better off without him. Seriously, you are.