So, my question is would you try and get an ex back if they had dumped you? Would you try and do it if you believed you hadn't changed?
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Normally you do it if you love someone and have changed. You don't do it if you haven't changed. Has he stated his wrongings to you? If he has, then he has clearly spotted were he has gone wrong, and knows what to do and not to do the next time around.
You have to realize, that okay so what he has yelled at you, has his hit you? If he has, then I would say to stay away from him, cause that unfortunately is a big thing that he cannot control. But if he hasn't, and he just gets mad, well everyone in every relationship gets mad. What are you gonna do? just leave when the next guy gets mad too? Maybe you will, but you can't always expect to "abandon" something when someone else cannot comply. I doubt you will leave with the next guy, as a matter of fact, ull probably just stick it out, cause then you will realize, "sh*t, I shouldn't have the last guy, cause there was just no point in leaving". Aka you will be able to tolerate it, cause you already went through it. But you'll always want to wish you were with this guy.
Anyways, long story short, do you wanna have his kids, is what this comes down too. If you do, then you will have to speak and want to work with him. If not, then you can tell him nicely that your sorry. And hope that your new relationships moving forward have no "fights". But they will. But anyways, story for next time.