he says he sees this relationship ending with us dying in each others arms. I feel like its too soon to think this. I'm a realistic person and I think its realistic that we will break up (this is both of ours first relationship, we're 18, in college). my friend says that its romantic and because of the modern age we live in, its hard to think that we could find love at first relationship although hundreds of years ago it was normal.
I'm not saying we won't end up together in the end, but maybe only after we break up and get back together after we've spent a few years exploring other options.
i don't want to break up with him, I enjoy his time and company so much but I don't see us staying together forever from this point being that reasonable...
i think this is just a first relationship high but then again his friends say that he was like this before he started dating me. he always said how he wanted one girl and that's it, but how could he know its me this soon and when we are this young? I don't usually believe that the first person you date or even fall in love with is the one you are going to spend the rest of your life with. its been 2 months!
its not that what he says about us staying together, having kids etc scares me, its more like I don't see how someone could feel this way after 2 months..
and yeah he's a bit of a romantic but he's really not one of those extreme people, where emotions run high for a short period of time, he's pretty stable and level headed normally
what do you think?
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Hmmmm. I must admit that what he said is pushing it way too far. Yet then again I remember more than one time I said something like that because it seemed right in my mind set at the time. Quoting something from a romantic movie I had recently viewed, or maybe a book I had just read.
Hey, the lines worked for the actor didn't they?
Consider that he has just entered into his first relationship. I very vividly remember my first love, and yes I said some pretty stupid stuff now that look back on it. To this day I would still marry that girl in a heart beat. Only problem is she, and I grew up and became very different people. We still stay in touch and I love her dearly. Marry her? OH HELL NO! We'd kill each other within a year.
If you remember a few things you will be fine in this, and if, other relationships throughout your life.
Love is a journey not a destination.
If you are speaking loud enough for someone in the next room to hear you neither one of you are saying anything to resolve the problem.
Three things will make any relationship a great one. Communication, communication, and communication.
Hope this helps.