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Unfortuntely there's not much you could do in this situation besides what you're already doing, which obviously isn't working. They don't have any kids, right? So there is really no reason for her to continue to be a part of his life. If he can't figure that out though, and kick her out for good, that's not fair to you. I'd stay away for awhile. If he ends up back together with her, or needs to spend more time getting over her, then you've only saved yourself more time and heartache. If he finely figures out he can't have the both of you (and that he shouldn't want her in his life) and comes back to you, great. If not, you've already started yourself on the rode to getting over him.