the fact the people keep telling me what kind of man I should want and where
I should find him. Instead of realizing I'd like to follow my heart and have a
great connection and so on and fourth. They want to put me in this convenient
little geographically desirable most be logical not emotional, type box.
And, frankly. It's pissing me off. Sorry, just venting. On to my question.
So, I'll just cut to the chase. Say you get married and have kids with one
person, but down the line many years later. You see someone that
"you feel this spark with, that you've never felt before". And, so you
and that person end up talking and you find out they're married and have kids
as well. You know nothing can happen, because your with someone else.
But, let's say you two couldn't resist each other and ended up sleeping
together, not out of lust but out of an emotional connection (that's hard to
explain and hard to deny). Would you (personally, not legally), still consider
I don't condone cheating ,however people get married for all sorts of reasons
and they're not always the right ones.So, though a scenario like this. While not very common,
is still probable. Never say never, right. So, what are your thoughts?
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well this happened to me. I had a boyfriend but mind you my connection to him was fading before I met someone else. and iv never had sex so no extreme case here.
so I met this other guy and then I realised, ok…. he's different and we connect a lot better. so I knew I could not lead my boyfriend on and continue to tell him I loved him. every time he said I love you I wouldn't say it back, so he realized something was up. I let him go because I knew that I couldn't lie to him and myself about how I felt, even tho I thought he was 'the one' at some point. so I broke it off and am now with the amazing guy I met.
but with your question..ur talking about marriage. marriage is BIG. I will NEVER sleep with anyone other than my husband. even if someone is fantastic, my love to my husband will stop me from doing anything that extreme. I would consider it cheating of course, sleeping with another person outside of marriage is just blatant adultery… people deny it but that's what it is?
this is why people need to take their time when choosing a partner…. to avoid getting married for the wrong reasons. these divorce rates just need to stop skyrocketing its saddd