What do I do I'm hella in love with my ex, but he says he can only give me a sexual relationship. I really don't feel good about this but I'm willing to sacrifice my true feelings so I can spend time with him. What should I do, should I tell him or not. I almost rather be friends and hang out than just have sex at least I could hang out with him, but I'm scared he won't want this and I would lose him all together, but I know if this relationship continues eventually it will end and friends last a lot longer. I feel hella sad and conflicted. Only good advice please no stupid ones.
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Not sure what "good advice" means to you but here is what I have to say.
I know how hard it is when we women have so much feelings for someone its hard to make decisions that we know our best. WE always put ourselves in hard situations as a result. You know what to do..like don't you ever feel your brain is telling you one thing and your heart the other? After every bad relationship, we say to ourselves "im going to follow my head from now on" Well, at least I do that..and it doesn't stick.
As for your situation, there is nothing I can say that you don't already know. I would tell him because its good for you to get that part out of your system. I think he's quite direct with his intentions. It doesn't seem that he is going to budge on that. So everything after that is in your court. If you stay then you've made a decision to basically agree those terms and that means you can't ever talk about the love you have with him again. If you dont, then you are deciding to give yourself a chance to find someone who can offer you what you need. The problem here is not being able to accept your situation and not having the courage to move on.
I have a lot of feelings for my boyfriend but the pattern of our relationship shows me that its not gonna work..i made a estimate ..so I broke it off. My past, I would stay to the end..but I don't have to stay to the end to know its not working. When one gets older, we have to learn how to know what we want and have the courage to get it...and let go if it isn't it. This helps us learn to pick the right people.0
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