because I got a tattoo without him...twice. So I'm at work and my ex (we still keep in touch) texts me a picture of his deposit on his first tattoo. I was genuinely happy for him because I know how much he's been looking forward to it. Throughout the conversation I told him I got mines but was too nervous to tell him. He then tells me "oh I realize you get tattoos when we break up" (mind you if that were the case, I would have about 15 of them...we've been together for close to 4 years). I told him me getting tattoos after we break up helps cope with the hurt and pain of him leaving...again. I figured he was mad about it and what I said but it's true, but I don't understand why. He told me I'm more spontaneous when we're not together but that when we were together and whenever he wanted to do something, it was like "asking god for a miracle" which is complete bullsh*t. I gave my all to him, moved into his house, did everything her wanted to do whether I wanted to or not, but he couldn't even make the effort to visit me or my family in my house but would visit his friend who lives in the same borough as I do. This has me infuriated and I can't let it go and can't wrap me head around the logic to his reasoning. PLEASE HELP!
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he's clearly just not over the relationship.
the question really is if you don't have to subject yourself to him then why do you?
maybe he does legitimately feel like it was hard to get you to do things or perhaps he's just upset that you are doing this specific thing regardless there really is no reason to deal with it.0
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