My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months. He's 45 minutes away at college and I work and try to visit him once a week if he's not too busy. We've never had any problems or fights, and we were very happy together.
I noticed lately he had been messaging me less and less, and acting weird. The last time I was with him, he told me he was very stressed because of school and the pressure his parents were putting on him, and he didn't think it was fair to me that he didn't have as much time for me anymore. He told me there were no other girls that he liked, and that he still loved me, but he needed space for a while. Although I'm still unsure if he broke up with me or just wanted a break for a while to think and get his life together, or both. I do know that before I left the college, I said I hope he comes back and he said he probably will.
The past two days I've given him his space, only texting him once to say good morning and once to say good night (I had told him I would, then asked if he would rather I didn't message him at all and he said no.). I've actually asked many people about this whole situation, and they all said to just continue giving him space and after his college stresses are lessened/gone, he'll most likely come back, but I just can't help but worry. So I wanted to put it on this site as well.
Based on what all had happened, do you think he may come back and ask to be together again? Thank you!
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Wow, while reading your post, I almost had to remember that I didn't post this myself… I am going through the exact same thing and the stories are practically the same! Except my guy and I haven't texted and there was no convo about probably coming back.
I think it could go either way. I know that this sucks to hear, but be prepared for both scenarios. Yes, he might come back. Once all of he stress is gone he might realize that he had a great girl in front of him & that he wants her back into his life. On the flip side, he could also graduate and think, "Heck with this, I'll just move forward in my life. Why go back?"
Some of the best advice I was ever given was, "Prepare for the worst, while you hope for the best."
I hope that he realizes his mistake and comes back to you. And if he doesn't? Then there's someone one there who won't ever give up on you, no matter how hard the situation is. Continue to give him space and let him chase you, instead of you chasing him.
Good luck girl :) Stay strong0